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Salam, i am a fiest time mom. My baby is 1 year old but he doesn't like to eat anything. i have tried everything from purees to finger foods to everything. he doesn't drink milk as such, i am against screen time so i have to distract him through different objects for him to take his bottle. moreover he doesn't sleep properly. still wakes up 5 to 6 times throughout the night and cries. he is unable to self soothe and i don't want to try the "cry it out" method. i live alone so it gets very overstimulating and exhausting! PLEASE HELP ME raise my baby the right way as i am completely lost. i don't know what kinda doctor or therapist or counsellor should i go to who can guide me with the proper techniques to solve these issues out
make a routine, don't offer him.toys. us k samne rakhdain. day mein bhi takay wo dhonday khud activities. spoon feeding se wo aadi ho jaega.
don't worry.
as you said alone taking care of baby and 1st baby . is really difficult for new mothers.
ALLAH bless you since you are doing the greatest job ever in this world as mother 24/7. and give you ajr.
let me know wt and length of baby to see if any malnutrition.
nutrition history very important .
you mental health very important .
so multi factor issue. it needs consulting someone who is expert in peds. anyone.
if baby's overall health is fine then its just a mess and overthinking.
thanks you.
Kindly reduce his milk/ bottle intake. The number of feeds you will offer more he will want to intake less food. And that’s why he cries and wakes up at night time as his stomach is empty and he’s not well fed. No matter how much he cries just reduce his bottle number. Eventually he will start taking his food. And make him sit along with you on dinner table offer him food and plate. He will pick up the habbits as well.
Patient
Post Owner
he takes 2 to 3 bottles max :') 5 ounce at most.
i was a one meal per day person now i make sure i sit and eat 3 meals chahy thora e just so he can sit along and watch and eat. i offer him his own utensils and even let him practice his pincer grasp but of no use
4 months ago
Toddlers gradually adopt habbits. He’s transitioning into a new phase. Just try to make him sit calmly on the table withou any screen time. At first he’ll create fuss but gradually he will adopt it. It takes alot of patience and energy. You stay calm and try doing it for a week atleast. He will refuse intitally but then he will adopt. Good luck! :)
4 months ago
- Continue breast feed.
- Strat to give him, weaning foods i-e Banana, Custard, Crealac rice, Khachri, Yogurt etc.
- Give small and frequent.
- No bottle feed.
- Take Care of Hygiene.
- Give Vit.D drops 2drops daily.
- Give Vidyallin drops 5drops 12hourly.
AOA ma'am, kbse he ye issue? koi test kraya ? koi med li apne? preshan na hon it's curable
Patient
Post Owner
sir bachy k khana na khany ya dodh na peeny py knsa test krwaty hyn i honestly don't know!
4 months ago
MBBS | Multan | Book Appointment
ultrasound kra skte hen ap uska, cbc kra skte hen, lfts kra skte hen, there are multiple tests to know the reason behind not eating anything
4 months ago
Aoa
What's his weight and height?
What's his sleeping pattern in day time?
Any one food or shake or packaged food he eats in good portion by himself?
Patient
Post Owner
he naps once a day, sometimes twice if i get lucky. his naps are half an hour long max.
no he doesn't like packaged foods like puree pouches or cerelac and he doesn't eat anything by himself willingly. he can grasp objects, take them to his mouth but has problem with food. nothing in good quantity at alllll
4 months ago
avoid sweets, candy, chocolate
give him salted buiscuits, give him beans, lentis soup. iron syrup whichever is available nearby medical store 2.5 ml twice daily
Patient
Post Owner
i haven't introduced sugar or salt to him yet! his only intake of sugar is in form of fruits if he eats any. so m not going to give him salty biscuits at all which has no nutritional value! ??
4 months ago
Patient
Post Owner
i have a bed time routine. i made sure he knows day and night difference. he has a playpen with toys, i put him in there as well. sb samny rkha hua hy. he plays then doesn't like being contained so asks to be taken out. phr pory ghr my crawl krta rehta hy exploring different items. his playing habits are not the issue. his sleeping and eating habits are
4 months ago
| MBBS | MD (Paeds) | | Karachi | Book Appointment
bed time routine is good. raat mein jab uthay feed kara k wais sula dain. eye contact nahi rakhain. diaper check karlain. nasal congrstion k leay dekh lain
4 months ago
Patient
Post Owner
i do all that. cleanses his nose with salinase. diaper check. no lights even if he wakes up. no verbal or eye contact. i don't know what else am i doing wrong
4 months ago
| MBBS | MD (Paeds) | | Karachi | Book Appointment
Day mein diet kya hai baby ki? motherfeed or bottle feed?
4 months ago
Patient
Post Owner
bottle feed. max 3 bottles. 3 ounces or 5 at most. try giving him fruits, pasta, rice, roti, vegetables but he doesn't like anything
4 months ago
| MBBS | MD (Paeds) | | Karachi | Book Appointment
bhook.wajeh ho sakti hai. he needs 5 meals in a day. 3/4 to 1 cup serving size each time. Khanay k leay koshish karain, relax rehain. it must be over whelming. apna bhi khayal rakhain, baby catches emotions especially from their mothers.
4 months ago