Talk to Psychiatry on Borderline Personality Disorder
Asking For Husband, Male 30, lahore
I am asking this question on a forum because I want the general view of multiple pscychologists and psychiatrists . My husband has BPD .He doesnot go to therapy .Refuses send me divorce papers. (1st talaq) Im living with my parents was verbally and physically abusive when he used to go in negative when mood was good he would be very kind ,romantic and cooperative as his phases would never end .We have a one year old baby too.I am financially stable and can support myself .But I feel disturbed .He has put allegations on me as he would have paranoia repeatedly and would say that I lie to him about things and would not listen to me even though I tried to explain that what he thinks is untrue .He himself slapped me twice and told people that I slapped him thats why he slapped me in return .What should I do .It was a love and hate cycle .Do you people from your experience think that I should try and persuade him for counseulling again ? Do people with
Dr. Usama Bin Zubair - Psychiatrist
MBBS, FCPS (Psychiatry), MRCPsych (UK), MAAAP (USA) | Rawalpindi
Please don’t discuss confidential matters on open forum. He can go for DBT. I provide these services in Rawalpindi
Dr. Waleed Akhtar - Psychiatrist
MBBS, FCPS ( Psychiatry), MRCPsych , Ireland trained In Adult & child psychiatry | Lahore
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Must be difficult experience.Seems Bipolar affective disorder.May be his medications were not in appropriate dose and counselling can help but there is bigger role of medications depending on his actual diagnosis.
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sir do you have personal experience in bpd patients ? Is it still worth it to pursue him as he himself divorced me
2 years ago
Patient
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the only reason im clinging to him is my memory of us when hes stable and our child
2 years ago
MBBS, FCPS ( Psychiatry), MRCPsych , Ireland trained In Adult & child psychiatry | Lahore | Book Appointment
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we can discuss about ur concerns in appointment
2 years ago
Counselling at this stage might not work. Better to treat the paranoia and underlying psychopathology. Better to Consult for proper management on time. Regards
Dr. Syed Muhammad Shahkar Ali - Psychiatrist
MBBS, MD (Psychiatry) | Dera Ismail Khan
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Consult online
Dr. Abdul Munam - General Physician
MBBS, Member of American College of Physician | Lahore
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Dr. Arooj Fatima - Psychiatrist
MBBS, Consultant Psychiatrist MD, CPD (Child & Adolescent Mental Health), Certified Geriatric Psychiatrist (APPNA) , Member of European Psychiatric Association | Lahore
857 Positive Reviews
kindly take online consultation for detailed assessment of your case
This is a very challenging condition to be in. Various variables would decide the final outcome. If it's just this acute condition which is caused by illness then effort should be made to get him better. But it seems problems are widespread and emotionally taxing for other members . As suggested above choose a suitable doctor and work through it to understand the nature of the issue. Things could be better if appropriately approached.
Is your husband taking and medicine? Can you convince him for therapy online? Are you a housewife or you go to work as well?
I think divorce is not a good option as your baby is only 1 year old and that can take create a negative impact on him. Try to focus all your energy on yourself. Ignore him and be self independant, that way you both can create healthy personal boundaries with eachother. Giving eachother space on a daily basis can help in love/hate cycle clashes. Try to be less expressive!
Men usually avoid taking treatment for their issues. Your case can be managed but it'll require you to do double efforts. If you are willing to do that then we can discuss a management plan through sessions
2 years ago
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