Talk to Psychologist on Disturbed Married Life
Asking for Self, Female, 32 years old, hyderabaad
me married hu, meri shadi ko 2 saal hue hain, me pareshan hu is waja se k mere huzband k sath meri mental understanding nahi ho pa rahi he. wo choti choti baat pr naraz hojaate hain or kehte hain k me ghr chor kr ja raha hu or tme talak de du ga or phr wakae 8 se 10 tak ghr nahi aate, unhe minnatain kr k hath jor k rokti hu or jb chale jain to 8 din fn pr maafi or minnat kr k ghr bulati hu, or ghalti meri nahi hti pr hamesha maafi mjh se mangwate hain.or baad me unhe realize krwao k ghalti un ki thi to mjh se wapas naraz hojate hain, maante b nahi k ghalti un ki thi, mjhe kbi equal life partner ka darja nahi dya, me kbi naraz hokr shikwa krti hu bolte hain k me tmhara khata nahi hu jo tum mjh pr ghusa kr rahi ho, mjh pr rob mat chalao. mjhe btain k me kiya kru? is ka koi hal he? wo pathan culture k hain wo bv ko brabari ka darja nahi dete, un ko piyaar se b koi baat samjhao to bolte hain mera muqabla kr rahi hu bat tameez ho.me samjha sakta hu, me lar sakta hu, tum bv ho tum nahi.
Daniyal Riaz - Psychologist
Mphil (Clinical Psychology), Lisenced Hypnotherapist (USA) | Karachi
121 Positive Reviews
Dear worried person, you need to learn effective communication so that you can convince your husband more easily and effective. further a little bit of couple counseling session will be more effective to make your married life more happier and healthier and peaceful then ever before. you can take my help by contacting me through Marham.pk
Asma Laghari - Psychologist
Certified in Self Development, Professional Accredited Life Coaching, Certified in Existential Well-being Counseling | Hyderabad
13 Positive Reviews
aap ne buht acha qadam lia hai yahan aap appointment book kren i will help you
Patient
Post Owner
madam, me ap ki appointment book b kru g but mere huzband kbi b mere sath nahi aain ge,wo apne ap ko sudharna hi nahi chahte wo apne aap ko perfect samajhte hain, boht ziada shaki insaan hain, jhgre kr kr k choti baato pr dino Naraz hojaate hain phr maafiya maang kr or minnat kr k bulati hu, wo couple counselling k liye nahi aain ge
5 years ago
Certified in Self Development, Professional Accredited Life Coaching, Certified in Existential Well-being Counseling | Hyderabad | Book Appointment
13 Positive Reviews
wo nahi aayengye aap ayengi ta k aapki life better ho sake hum aapki help kr sakte hain
5 years ago
Hello,
Ap dono ko marriage counselling ki zarurat hai
takai ap dono apny sarey masail ko hal kar sakien aur behtar shadi shuda zindagi guzar sakien
Ap is kai liay Psychologist se milskti hai unki clinic pe, ya yahan ja sakti hain
idher bhi ap call krke appointment leskti hain
Ms. Rabia Tanveer - Psychologist
MSc (Psychology), Diploma (Clinical Psychology), BTTC (Behavioral Therapy Training Course), ADCP, Training of Addiction Professionals of Pakistan, DHMS | Gujranwala
2431 Positive Reviews
Aoa dear.... aap muj se baat ker sakti hain....marham k through muje call ker sakti hain... main ap ki madad ker sakti hu... apna boht khayal rakhen ...
Assoc. Prof. Dr. Tahira Yousaf - Psychologist
MSc, MPhil , PhD (Clinical Psychology), Diplomas in Complementary Therapies of Hypnosis, Diplomas in Complementary Therapies of NLP, Diplomas in Complementary Therapies of DBT | Karachi
42 Positive Reviews
Your husband is sadly a psychopath. You can google this word. Yes he will never go for counseling and he will always blame you for problems, difficulties, issues and it will get worse as time passes. I’m sorry to say but there is no hope in your marriage because whichever way you will choose to feel, he will make you feel worse. This sort of person is called toxic. I will come across as very blunt and I apologize for this right now, but you cannot live with a psychopath. Get away and leave him while you can. And let me warn you, its going to be very difficult then also but you will have peace. Marriage is a way of life, but NOT the only way. Its meant to enrich your life, not ruin it. I wish you peace, which I’m sure is what you are looking for. And you will need alot of counseling to understand that none of his behavior is your fault. I am a pathan but my husband treats me equally and with great respect. My best friend is a pathan and she is one of the sweetest person i know. But she too like you married a psychopath and suffered left right and center because of his abuse and cruel behaviors. Eventually after many years she had to run away with her baby. She has lived through a lot of problems and 6 court cases but she survived, why? Because she was at peace. Your husband is ruining you. God did not direct any man to ruin a woman. So remember that. We return to Him alone and are answerable for only our own actions.
Patient
Post Owner
Tell me me kiya kru? me boht pareshan hu. ap ka email id ya contakt numbrr?
5 years ago
Dear,
both of you need marriage counselling.... i will advice you to consult with psychologist who is neutral, free from gender or any basis otherwise he or she will ruined your case.... i do understand that you have been going through alot but still coin has two face so should know boht of your perspective... God bless you
1. Koi bhi insan by birth bura nai hota. R na hi ap k husband psychopath hyn.
2. Hmeisha expert sy suggestions lya krn. ap direct kici kareebi psychologist sy rabta krn.
3. shadi shuda zindgi achi tb hoti hy jab communication achi ho.
4. Aik hi formula hy achi shadi shuda life ka aur woh hy 5:1 ratio. Is ratio ka mtlab hy. Agr din mn ap 6 batn krn tu un mn 5 batn postive hn aur aik negative ho jey koi masla nai. Aur is ratio sy uper chalti jayn tu life better sy best ho jati h.
5. Means yh k daily routine mn ap 85 percent. Batn postive krn.
6. Hm sb ko positivity ki dose chahye hoti hy.
7. bardashat aur sabur k sath sb kch theak ho skta h. Himmat na harein
Sumara Riaz - Psychologist
BSC Psychology, Masters in Applied Psychology, Post Graduate Certification in Addictions and Mental Health, MACP | Lahore
1 Positive Reviews
I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I can understand that it’s too tough to live with this kind of relationship. You can try to persuade him to get counseling because otherwise your relationship is not worth living. Garri k do pahiye hotey hai iss liye donon ko saath mil kar chalna hota hai. Koshish karen won counseling k liye maan jayen kyun k yeh aap akeli k chahne se theek nahin Ho sakta. Contact me at Marham.
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Dr riaz, couple counseling k liye wo nahi aain ge, un k mutabiq wo ek perfect insan hain jo na koi ghalti krta he or na kr sakta he, ha me ap se baat zarur kru g, wo depression k patient b hain or kehte hain mjhe koi psychological disturbance nahi he, bal k me psychiatrist k pass ya psychologist k pass ja kr baat kruga to wo tme pagal qarar de dain he. un k behaviour ko kese theek krna he wo b ap mjhe btaiye ga
5 years ago
Mphil (Clinical Psychology), Lisenced Hypnotherapist (USA) | Karachi | Book Appointment
may be wo denial phase me hoon. aur un se ziada aap effect ho rahi hain to pehle thora sa kaam ap ko apnah uper krna hoga phir wo khud he razi hojaengay sessions k lea. communication ko behtr krnay k lea aap step le kr dekh len faida to dono ka he hai.
5 years ago