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i don't like the stuff people normally do and i do not agree with the current lifestyle of our people and there are things which i like but most people hate it and they call me psycho
get appointment and share your feeling for behavior/attitude treatment
Every person have a different mindset and different school of though it's quite normal to dislike a stuff which other can like but with a reason.
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thank alot for reply M'am and due to the open world i am attracted alot to females and stuff related to them but people around me call me with bad names and consider me a bad person
2 years ago
All of us has individual differences. Everyone has right to choose what one likes for oneself according to his/her culture, norms and values. What one should avoid/control to impose his/her choices on other/s or interfering in other/s life or letting other down for choosing their lifestyle. Having differences do not make us mentally ill.
Patient
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thank alot for reply M'am and due to the open world i am attracted alot to females and stuff related to them but people around me call me with bad names and consider me a bad person
2 years ago
| PMDCP (Post Magistral Diploma in Clinical Psychology) | CBT | | Karachi | Book Appointment
26 Positive Reviews
Being different is alright. But if one feels misfit/unadjustable or unacceptable by others/surrounding that making him/her disturbed/stressed then he/she needs to talk with someone who can make him/her comfortable and facilitate him/her to adjust in environment by developing healthy coping skills. You can find someone around you or can consult to any mental health professional for discussing your issue and proper guidance.
2 years ago
Patient
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Salam M'am sorry for disturbing again can i get a little free advise?
2 years ago
Its okay to be different. But having unusual and extreme different ideas and behavior is something which should be managed.
Be confident on yourself, but keep changing and growing. and if there're things which are disturbing your mental health and causing troubles do consult Counsellor.
I'm available
Patient
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thank alot for reply M'am and due to the open world i am attracted alot to females and stuff related to them but people around me call me with bad names and consider me a bad person
2 years ago
book an appointment
Patient
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thanks Dr. saab i would have booked appointment but ihave posted here for free advise
2 years ago
Masters (Psychology), M.Phil (Continue) | Bahawalpur | Book Appointment
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u welcome,sure why not
2 years ago
Masters (Psychology), M.Phil (Continue) | Bahawalpur | Book Appointment
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it's my pleasure
2 years ago
Patient
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Salam M'am sorry for disturbing again can i get a little free advise?
2 years ago
dear we can change ourselves .and by Good behaviour we are able to convince others peoples
book session and get all answers of your life related questions
Patient
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Salam M'am sorry for disturbing again can i get a little free advise?
2 years ago
Don't worry u r not psycho, but keep flexibility in personality, nature, liking and accpet others with changing its success of your life. You take session of counselling Bcoz it's very necessary for your future life and learn how u accept and reject others nd deal the stuff. There are some questions about your life and personality assessment which we can discuss in detail through session of 45 minuts, book your oppointment. Best of luck
Dr fazilat Shahzadi
Ikram Hospital Gujrat
Amir Hospital Gujrat
Or consult online
book your appointment for better treatment n consultation thankyou so much
Patient
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Salaam M'am sorry for disturbing again but can you please explain how to fulfill my desires without making my partners uncomfortable? because due to my behaviour of being different and exploring different or new things they think im nasty weird and a creep and i have built up fetishes too but just want my partners to not feel uncomfortable because of me
2 years ago
hey .
I'm glad that you are unique in your own way .. but st the same time if people are calling you at that extreme then it should be observed and managed as you have to live among them. consult someone to whom you can share so that it could be assessed if you have any extreme or people are just not accepting it... stay blessed
Patient
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thanks for reply doctor saab i really appreciate you for taking your precious time to reply. thanks alot
2 years ago
no this is their problem not yours, you have right yo do things by their own self and that is your choice if no one understand this thing then maybe they are not stable and playing a blame game
Patient
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This is a great perspective but i think we cannot survive without a society but i just want people to embrace others instead of ridiculing them just because they dont like things done by the majority.
2 years ago
Bs Hons (Psychology) ADCP MS Top-Up (Clinical Psychology) DHMS | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
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yes, but we have to make boundaries about all the things and when someone cross it or when we think things getting out of control then leave the situation, because we just tell them but not correct others because everyone has their own thoughts and beliefs
2 years ago
Patient
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but what if someone has the authority over you for something or you are bound by them what we should do in that case without having a dispute?
2 years ago
Bs Hons (Psychology) ADCP MS Top-Up (Clinical Psychology) DHMS | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
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take appointment we will discuss things further insha'Allah everything will be fine
2 years ago
Patient
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M'am actually i do have a hospital on my job's panel for medical treatment but i just wanted some free advice from strangers who wont ridicule me
2 years ago
Bs Hons (Psychology) ADCP MS Top-Up (Clinical Psychology) DHMS | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
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you can take online appointment then like this maybe you will misguide or not understand things
2 years ago
Patient
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well i did tried to have online appointments but these are just for one time i guess while i need a constant therapist who can guide me through out
2 years ago
Bs Hons (Psychology) ADCP MS Top-Up (Clinical Psychology) DHMS | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
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yes, it would be.
2 years ago
Patient
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Salaam M'am sorry for disturbing again but can you please explain how to fulfill my desires without making my partners uncomfortable? because due to my behaviour of being different and exploring different or new things they think im nasty weird and a creep and i have built up fetishes too but just want my partners to not feel uncomfortable because of me
2 years ago
Bs Hons (Psychology) ADCP MS Top-Up (Clinical Psychology) DHMS | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
9 Positive Reviews
book your appointment through Marham app we will discuss things further
2 years ago
Patient
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M'am i have free treatment facility through my company's panel can i avail it in which hospital do you check your patients
2 years ago
Bs Hons (Psychology) ADCP MS Top-Up (Clinical Psychology) DHMS | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
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my settings in Bahria town stroke and Rehabilitation Center near Safari hospital
2 years ago
book your appointment for online session
Patient
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Thanks for replying Dr. Saab actually i have a hospital on my company's panel from where i get my treatment but most of people there know me and i didnt wanted to disclose my inner thoughts to them and found marham as a good platform unlike social media where people get bashed for having different likings or stuff
2 years ago
Having diffrent perspective to life is quite normal but when we are having social issues we need to fix them.. I guess you should consult.
Patient
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Thanks for precious time sir. i am actually confused a little right now but i might consult in future.
2 years ago
we need your detail history for diagnosing issue so book your online session for proper traetment
which things you don't like?
Patient
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Materialistic things but i mean i dont hate materialistic things but i just dont want it for myself because i think its a burden in reality and i should not be spending on materialistic things but only on spiritual things
2 years ago
Patient
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Salaam M'am sorry for disturbing again but can you please explain how to fulfill my desires without making my partners uncomfortable? because due to my behaviour of being different and exploring different or new things they think im nasty weird and a creep and i have built up fetishes too but just want my partners to not feel uncomfortable because of me
2 years ago
deatil history is needed for diagnosis
Patient
Post Owner
Salaam M'am sorry for disturbing again but can you please explain how to fulfill my desires without making my partners uncomfortable? because due to my behaviour of being different and exploring different or new things they think im nasty weird and a creep and i have built up fetishes too but just want my partners to not feel uncomfortable because of me
2 years ago
Aoa, every person have different thoughts or lifestyle the main problems nowadays is luxury lifestyle or things they forget about really
meaning of Allah creations. consult someone whom you can share all the stuff .
Patient
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OMG you are absolutely spot on but my problem is i do not hate people with a luxury lifestyle or with luxury cars instead i really love them but i just dont want it for myself because i get more anxiety and depression whenever i get or have more money but how i want to spend my money makes people around me angry or maybe they just want me to spend on materialistic things instead of spiritual things
2 years ago
| MSc Psychology | MS Clinical Psychology | | Lahore | Book Appointment
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yes you right but at this time of frame people Don't understand this things for example if you get more money then distribute In three parts one for the (name of Allah , its up to you wo ap kisi ko be do) seconds for needed people third for your own self. these three step help you to reduce your anxiety or depression
2 years ago
Patient
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well actually i had followed this formula and it really gives you inner peace but the thing is the money which i keep for myself gives me anxiety too and i want to spend it on people so they can accept me and normalize the stuff i like or want or atleast help me in achieving it but instead i lose that money i spent on them and lose them as my ally and also the money if i ask for return and i get hated for not taking care of the money i earn and get blamed for wasting it.
2 years ago
| MSc Psychology | MS Clinical Psychology | | Lahore | Book Appointment
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so there is fear also present,book
appointment for and discuss about it ik on your self bases you try to manage but you need to discuss these things.
2 years ago
Patient
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M'am i do have a paneled hospital with my job where i get free treatment but i just needed some free advices from strangers who wont ridicule me for my thinking thanks alot for your precious time Dr. Sb
2 years ago
Patient
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Salaam M'am sorry for disturbing again but can you please explain how to fulfill my desires without making my partners uncomfortable? because due to my behaviour of being different and exploring different or new things they think im nasty weird and a creep and i have built up fetishes too but just want my partners to not feel uncomfortable because of me
2 years ago
| MSc Psychology | MS Clinical Psychology | | Lahore | Book Appointment
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waslam, can you tell me about yours desire
2 years ago
Patient
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i am extremely attracted towards females and infact i get so much attraction for girls and everything that is related to them that i want to explore alot of things with my partners but most of them think its very weird nasty and creep and they think i am a mad person but all i want to explore without making my partners feel uncomfortable.
2 years ago
Patient
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and some even tell me i should not talk about it with anyone but i feel like how would my partners feel comfortable when they won't even know what is inside my heart or how do i feel i also wanted to seek relationship therapy but people laugh at me for this and they dont think its even a thing
2 years ago
| MSc Psychology | MS Clinical Psychology | | Lahore | Book Appointment
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there are many things inside you which you can't express or share.
at that moment actually ap be kabi kabi samj nae paty what do you want or what you want to explore
2 years ago
may be your opinion not match with people for improving your self esteem and self efficacy book a session
No one is Psycho, ese conflicts ajty hain life mein or ye manage b hoskty hain.
Patient
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but i wish we could manage it without having huge medicine doses aur psychologists i think only try to bring their abnormal ideas or thinking back to normality which is just i think is false concept itself because people consider something as normal whenever a majority starts doing it.
2 years ago
BS Clinical Psychology, Certified CBT Practitioner MSCP | Sialkot | Book Appointment
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A huma is a social animal. Kbi b akela nhi reh skta kahi na kahi support ki or kahi na kahi counseling ki zrurt prti h.
2 years ago
Patient
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yes but world would become a great place if we just start accepting other's opinions
2 years ago
being different doesn't mean one is psycho... it depends how u take different perspectives of life.. everybody has their own perceptions.. there is no rule to judge who's better.. however, there r certain limitations... like if one says i like to hurt people.. its a negative cognition.. but if u say i like rich people.. its ur own perspective. u can live by ur own will. just be confident and never cross the borderline of ethics...
:)
Patient
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what about loving people? i like to love not hurt and yes i like rich people but does it mean i have to become rich too? i think no not everyone lives for money only or becoming rich should not be the only objective of life
2 years ago
BS (Psychology), Advanced Diploma In CBT, Certified of Pharmacotherapy, Mphil clinical psychology | Faisalabad | Book Appointment
83 Positive Reviews
you're right and i appreciate ur thoughts... and positive anxiety is something that doesn't let u stay calm.. it means u should get up and do something.. something for urself.. something for others..
So indulge urself in such fruitful activities.. our country and our people are in need of such spirits...keep it up
2 years ago
BS (Psychology), Advanced Diploma In CBT, Certified of Pharmacotherapy, Mphil clinical psychology | Faisalabad | Book Appointment
83 Positive Reviews
my pleasure :)
2 years ago
BS (Psychology), Advanced Diploma In CBT, Certified of Pharmacotherapy, Mphil clinical psychology | Faisalabad | Book Appointment
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i dnt have any other source my bro.. however, i will reply ur queries here in detail without appointment :)
2 years ago
BS (Psychology), Advanced Diploma In CBT, Certified of Pharmacotherapy, Mphil clinical psychology | Faisalabad | Book Appointment
83 Positive Reviews
my pleasure
2 years ago
Patient
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Salaam M'am sorry for disturbing again but can you please explain how to fulfill my desires without making my partners uncomfortable? because due to my behaviour of being different and exploring different or new things they think im nasty weird and a creep and i have built up fetishes too but just want my partners to not feel uncomfortable because of me
2 years ago
BS (Psychology), Advanced Diploma In CBT, Certified of Pharmacotherapy, Mphil clinical psychology | Faisalabad | Book Appointment
83 Positive Reviews
wa alikum assalam! no need to be sorryy.. but i would like to know specifically what ur desires are... fetish towards what
2 years ago
Patient
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fetishes towards females and their feets i mean i am extremely attracted towards female but it makes them really uncomfortable
2 years ago
BS (Psychology), Advanced Diploma In CBT, Certified of Pharmacotherapy, Mphil clinical psychology | Faisalabad | Book Appointment
83 Positive Reviews
attraction towards females is a normal thing. however, that should be in control.. anything beyond ur control will become a problem..regarding fetishism towards feet, u can massage your own feet or for female feet y dnt u try a spa treatment for ur mother sis or friends.. this helps to satisfy the urge.... and if u want to get away from the thought...
open google and search feet skin disorders.... seeing those pics will discourage fetishism.
2 years ago
Patient
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well i feel very guilty to talk about it with my mother and i dont have a sister i might have talked about it with her if i ever had any and if she wasn't a strict person like males or even like other females in my family and most of my partners do this to me which really discourages me feet fetish but its just a temporary and whenever i see normal feet of females i really start feeling the urge
2 years ago
BS (Psychology), Advanced Diploma In CBT, Certified of Pharmacotherapy, Mphil clinical psychology | Faisalabad | Book Appointment
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you dont need to talk to anyone brother regarding ur issues...
its totally ok to hide ur feelings.. see, feelings r something we cannot control.. its our attitude and behavior that matters..
2 years ago
Patient
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yes but i think my attitude and behaviour makes them hate me and instead of getting appreciated or even just getting some percentage of getting that affection back i really get hated alot for my feelings which hurts me because all i want is to make my partners happy but they get uncomfortable annoyed even if i talk about it.
2 years ago
BS (Psychology), Advanced Diploma In CBT, Certified of Pharmacotherapy, Mphil clinical psychology | Faisalabad | Book Appointment
83 Positive Reviews
brother it means u r unable to express a positive behavior which should be controlled
2 years ago
apko kesi cheezen psnd nhi hain krne ko Kin Kin cheezon se issue hai? baki sb ki pasand alag alag hoti to is me psycho wali bat nhi hai baki situation p b depend krta
Patient
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i dont want to own materialistic things futher i am attracted to females too which my family considers bad and they do not let me have multiple wives
2 years ago
opposite gender ki trf attract hona abnormal nhi hai but agr apki shadi hui v hai to phr apko pta hai k wife ko e sb kch smjhna chahiye or agr or shadian krna chahty us k liye b phli wife ka razi hona zaruri is trha situation ko dekhna parhta hai na hr mamly me
2 years ago
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Pakistani laws b ajeeb hain k biwi s hi ijazat zruri hai dosri biwi lany k liye lol jesy koi PM ho usko sirf uski marzi s hi hattaya ja skta ho tou kia woh kabhi khud ko apni post s utaary ga kia? no matter how incompetent he is.
2 years ago
Pakistani laws se hat k Islam me b hai ap koi aisi larki dhund len jo phly e razi ho dusri krwany k liye bht dunia bethi hui
2 years ago
Hoti hain jinko masla nahi hota dhundne se Mil jati hain
2 years ago
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dhoondhi bht thien nahi mili aur ab dosri dhoondhna aur b ziada mushkil
2 years ago
ab yahan p ek cheez mushkil hai to yahan p apny ap ko thora manage Karen q k ye aisa mamla ap apny ko khali dekh k nhi chal skty yahan dusron ka b khayal rakh k chalna shadi mtlb do bndon ka Mil Jul k ek dusry ko smjh k ek dusry ka khayal rakh k chalna to agy any wali life ka b soch k chalen sirf ye na dekhen k mjhy shadi krni psnd 3,4 ye b dekhen krne k agy any waly wqt me sb kch dekh bhal ap kr skty ya nhi apki wife b apki life ka hissa wo razi hai ya nhi hr pehlu se dekh k koi b kam Karen
2 years ago
welcome
2 years ago
Patient
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Salaam M'am sorry for disturbing again but can you please explain how to fulfill my desires without making my partners uncomfortable? because due to my behaviour of being different and exploring different or new things they think im nasty weird and a creep and i have built up fetishes too but just want my partners to not feel uncomfortable because of me
2 years ago
tu ap dosro k style ko mat judge Karen u can criticise it but u cant make them change it ap apne raay de sakty hein
Patient
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Dr. Saab i never judge or criticize them infact i love their lifestyle but i just them to not become a hurdle in the lifestyle i want to live
2 years ago
M.Sc Psychology | Islamabad | Book Appointment
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and who are they jo hurdle ban rahe hein is that ur family or friends? agr ban rahe hein tu apne unko itne space de hy wh interfere kr rahe hein apki life mei ap ek boundary set Karen k is se agy ksi ko ijzat nai wh dakahl dey ap pyar se samjae dein is lone ko cross nai krna after all ur the driver or ur own life
2 years ago
Please mention the stuff you like and what you don't like. Then we can proceed.
Thank you for sharing.
That must be very distressing.
Kindly visit online we will sort out the possible reason and a treatment accordingly if needed
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