Talk to Psychologist on Mind Addicted To Porn And Masturbation

Mam, I never involved in physical relationship in my 28 years of life. Issue is, if I try to stimulate myself without porn, it takes alot of time. But with porn, I quickly get stimulation. That's why I said this, that my stimulation is dependent on porn.
Now I am worried, how I will get stimulation with my life partner?

okay you said you never been in any sexual rel, then how do you know that you won't get stimulated when you even have not tried a thing?? Are you getting my question? And if you actuallt have been in sexual relationship and didn't get stimulated, that os because of anxiety you have with regards to that specific person. I hope you are understanding me

Because I always did masturbation while watching porn. And suddenly noticing that I might have erectile dysfuction.

i got what you want to say, but i feel you are still confused

I totally got your point Mam. I tried to contact some urologist also, he also asked me same thing, how you know this, without having sexual relationship.
He denied to prescribed me medicines because of this question that you asked me.
Mam, I am 95 percent sure that I can face stimulation issues after marrige, because mind is addicted to screen visuals, if I try to make myself stimulated by using hands, I don't get stimulation easily. (Same case will be with partner).
My confusion is, why can't I get stimulation naturally without porn? Why I have to dependent on porn? These are the reasons that force my think about complexities in marriage life.

okay got it. I recommend you to book an online consultation with me as I can't explain more here.

https://www.marham.pk/online-consultation/psychologist/islamabad/yasmeen-zahra-16867

Actually, I don't want to cheat my partner. I want to fix things before getting into real relationship. I can't share it with parents , that's why trying to fix by asking from doctors first. And I don't want to check my stimulation by doing zina. One person adviced me to do zina and check yourself either you get stimulation or not. (Astrgfirullah)
I hope mam you got my point.

Mam, I explained my whole issue to you, and you also got my issue.
I want to know, either you can help me to solve my issue. Either I should visit andrologist?
Because understanding issue is most important. I want to know, how to contact you?

Mam, I explained my whole issue to you, and you also got my issue.
I want to know, either you can help me to solve my issue. Either I should visit andrologist?
Because understanding issue is most important. I want to know, how to contact you?

yes i got you. No you don't need to visit endocrinologist as this is not a hormonal issue, it is related to sexual therapy.

Thanks Mam, I contact you inshallah.
I request you, please my issue should be resolved. And I am not comfortable to talk with you in video., as not easy for me to talk on thisnin video.... I will book audio session.

okay

Thanks Mam .
Can therapy is possible on voice call? Or video is compulsory? I want to cinfirm this first

Thanks Mam . I contact you inshallah

it can be on voice

Mam, any way to connect with you directly for appointment? To avoid marham charges?

No please contact via marham or visit me in my clinic. Taliya's clinic, G-9/4 Islamabad

Okay Mam. I am from lahore. Otherwise I would have come there. Online is only option

Okay thank you Mam

Hassan Bukhari - Psychologist

MS Clinical Psychology | Abbottabad | Book Appointment

8 Positive Reviews

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Strong reason for *masturbation

Yes sir you are right. I just mentioned that I am unmarried, because doctors ask either you are married or not. That's why I mentioned

Sir, I am trying on my end, whenever I get a chance to be alone. Negative thoughts comes in mind and force me to watch porn

Asst. Prof. Mr Umar - Psychologist

M.Sc Psychology | Islamabad | Book Appointment

24 Positive Reviews

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think positive khd ko alone time mat dein jab tak khd ki zaat per control nai hy

Okay Mam

Yes Mam
You are right
Every second male is addicted to it

Yes Mam, I just check your fee. It is above my range. If you give discount. I can visit your hospital. I am from lahore

Ms. Namra Hanif - Psychologist

MS (Clinical Psychology), BS (Applied Psychology) | Lahore | Book Appointment

3 Positive Reviews

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042-32591427,
contect on this number

Okay Mam

Exactly mam, I am trying monthly targets. And trying to busy myself.
Thanks for your advice

Ms. Samia Touqeer - Psychologist

MSc Psychology, Advance Diploma in Clinical Psychology | Sialkot | Book Appointment

5 Positive Reviews

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Keep doing this , never stop focusing. Shetan is everywhere trying to destroy our Eman.

Yes Mam. I have also maintained a register to enter all details. My highest achieved target is 81 days.
Inshallah I will quit it permanently

Mam, I request you to please understand my issue first. I can't pay to those therpists , who don't understand issue and can't help me out.

Hafiza Kanza - Psychologist

| BS Applied Psychology | MS Clinical Psychology | | Lahore | Book Appointment

1 Positive Reviews

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Inshallah why not

Thanks Mam
Muje actually society ka pressure bhi boht mind mai aaata, k agr mujh se kuch na ho saka, how my wife will react ? Because muje lgta ha , I won't be able to perform due to my bad acts that I did.
Aapko mera issue completely smg agya ha Mam? Porn pr boht dependence hogae ha... I feel, I won't be able to survive in my real relationship

Secondly, I am also from lahore. Do you have offer any services in any hospital in lahore? I might visit your hospital
Soch rha, online therapy Ln ya physical jaa kr therapy Ln...

Secondly, I am also from lahore. Do you have offer any services in any hospital in lahore? I might visit your hospital
Soch rha, online therapy Ln ya physical jaa kr therapy Ln...

Aysha zaid - Psychologist

| Lahore | Book Appointment

42 Positive Reviews

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yes I totally understand your problem actually mere pass Aise bahut se clients Aate Hain aur jo Inhi problems Mein Hote Hain Kyunki Dekho Hamare Yahan masla bata kya hai yahan per hai aapki Jo physical need hai jo aapki mental health hai usko consider hi nahin kiya Jata aur bus yah kah diya jata hai ki aap ek certain time Ek certain age per Jaenge to Fir hi aapko jo hai vah shaadi karne ko allow Hoga the wise aap shaadi ki baat nahi kar sakte to use vajah se Kafi mast Le a Jaate Hain aur dusra Akele Rahana environment issues theek hai to Insan Aisi chijon Mein Chale Jata Hai lekin Agar Thoda Sa Bhi aapke pass Vil power hai aur aap ine chijon se nikalna Chahte Hain To Baki inshallah I will help you aur aap nikal Jayenge

Inshallah, mam
Let me finalise
K aik aur mam se bhi bat hui ubhi..... muje lg rha ha , aap ne bhi relevant patients deal keye hain.... so thankful
I also contact you mam
Mera mind saaf kr den mam bs.... sari zindagi duwaayen dunga aapko inshallah
Give me time to finalise thanks

Aysha zaid - Psychologist

| Lahore | Book Appointment

42 Positive Reviews

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yeah sure take your time because it's necessary to choose the person who trust more or lagta hai ki aap ki problem samajh Rahe Hain To Apne Ko contact Karen Agar aapko lag raha hai main aapki problem samajh rahi hun to mujhe contact kar le aur ismein koi nahin Hamari priority yahi hai ki Ham aapki problem theek karen to Inshallah aap theek ho jaaoge

Inshallah Mam
Thanks for your advice