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Asking For Self, Male 25, lahore
please help is this psychological or what phly mjy masturbation ki bht habbit thy from last few years then i realized i should stop bcz i thought size effect ho ra but i dont know hua ya nhi now trying hard to control the habbit so ab ye tou control ho rhy but issue ye h k mjy erection mae masla a rha h like phly hoty thy kafi ab morning mae hoty thori baqi nhi phly tou agr koi ajeeb sy dressing mae dekh leta kisi ko us waqt b ho jaty thy but ab nhi ye psychological issue h ya medical and mjy wet dreams b nhi aty teenage mae hoty thy phr masturbation start ho gyi tou mid 20s mae aik do dfa hua bs mae singl hu kbhi zina ya koi immoral act nhi kiya except masturbation pleasee guiide
Ms. Maria Bilal - Psychologist
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi
31 Positive Reviews
Actually with the passage of time when person becomes mature, erection may not happen just by dressing or a movie scene. Sometimes stress effects the situation and busy routine life. To experience erection or sexual activity one has to be relax and calm. It’s not medical to minor level can be psychological. And I will say the same to you too do not think too much about it keep yourself relax in this regard then you will experience the erection and yes do repeat your masterbation activity once in a while
Dr. Sabahat Naseem - Psychologist
M.Phil in Clinical Psychology, PhD in Clinical Psychology | Karachi
8 Positive Reviews
Hello, it’s normal to not have frequent erection.
M.Phil in Clinical Psychology, PhD in Clinical Psychology | Karachi | Book Appointment
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Yes. If you are still able to maintain erection through other sexually provocative things however less frequently than before, it’s normal.
4 years ago
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masturbation controlled. planning to get married next year or so. I am black and unaware of how Cn I maintain a good sexual relationship with partner. I need detailed counseling on sexual relationship and wedding night arrangement. Who to contact? which field person or any other institution
Can you let us know
4 years ago
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once in a while? as in time period?
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Like in a week or so
4 years ago
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is it healthy as mostly doctors recommend not doing it
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
No it’s a natural phenomena and need of males to masturbate so one can practice it in limits
4 years ago
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okk
4 years ago
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once or twice a week acceptable? does masturbation affect physical health of organ? any idea doctor?
4 years ago
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i feel little bit sensation sometimes but can't maintain it. dont know why?
should i eat supplements
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
No it does not effect the physical health of the organ by masturbation you are going through the normal process not killing or abusing it
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Yes you can take supplements but by the suggestion of a doctor and you may loose the hardness or unable to maintain it because may be you are stressed or thinking about something a lot. This process requires attention and relaxation
4 years ago
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yes thinking alot about it.. and i use to play like even if i dont masturbate even then i use to play with it'' so dont know either organ damages or what
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
It is a very strong organ can not be damaged that easily unless you have abused it . For surety you can have a session or go to a dr for physical examination to be sure
4 years ago
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session with you? yes its not damaged. little bit veiny
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
If you want to
4 years ago
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how it can be evaluated in session? may i know little bit?
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Through questions, history, your routine of doing it, there are many things to ask from you and I am sure you also have many questions to be answered
4 years ago
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okk
4 years ago
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can a person regain the erection to normal if stop masturbation completely
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Yes the person can regain the erection completely
4 years ago
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by stopping masturbation and good diet '.. right??
4 years ago
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ok ty.
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Masterbation does not effect the erection or size of penis so yes you can regain it with good healthy food and routine
4 years ago
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but mine got affected by masturbation. this is new to me that it doesn't affect
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Yes I will still say masurbation does not effect the erection, then there must be some other reason if the size or erection is effected masturbation is not to be blamed here
4 years ago
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ohk maybe i thought wrong.
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Yes dear you thought wrong
4 years ago
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do let us know the good diet if you know
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4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Diet rich in protein, potassium rich diet like bananas spinach broccoli avacadoes etc and also the pine nuts almonds walnuts watermelon most of the berries sweet potatoes peaches etc
4 years ago
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ok ty
4 years ago
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hi. you said masturbation is normal thing. some people say that if you masturbate too much by watching porn later on you end up having no real feelings when you get into real relationship
is this true? please put a light on it
and other than watching porn how someone can masturbate? Any other means?
4 years ago
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what is the height of abusing the organ
what do you mean by that
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
What do you mean by that height of abusing the organ? Where did I use that word?
4 years ago
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scroll the comments. you said masturbation doesn't damage organ unless you abuse so what you mean by abuse
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
It is not true your real feelings never go away, automatically if you come in a relationship those feelings develop naturally towards the partner. Whatever people say is not right please do not listen less experienced and regular people. Trust me. Yes you can try not to masturbate too much if you still want to then regain the rest energy by having a proper healthy diet. You can do masterbation by using your imagination and visualisation, porn is not the only way to do go through the process. You will get the real feelings of romance and sex when you will have a real relationship do not worry abou that what Peppe say is totally wrong
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Simply abuse means hitting the organ with hand by force means very much force or try to squeeze it or to hit it with something with any object
4 years ago
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tried to squeeze in early childhood but i think its fine little bit curvature
and ty for clarifying other point. yes imagination and visualization also occurs when you think yourself with someone.
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
To be sure about the curvature if you are worried you can check with the doctor by the way if erection is happening fine and you are doing masterbation fine then your organ must be completely fine
4 years ago
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erection is fine sometimes.. sometimes not maybe its due to diet. as recommended by you in comments.. i will take good diet now.
organ is little bit curvature and cant maintain erection sometimes.. maybe its due to less feeling etc.. its happen from 2 3 weeks
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
It can also happen because of stress and you loose concentration and get distracted by something when masturbating
4 years ago
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yes stress and fatigue is there mostly can i ask one more thing in this comments or should i post a question relates to make sexuality
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Write here
4 years ago
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what is the minimum time period a person should have erection? I mean to say When erection happens how much time it should last minimum and does pre seminal fluid is Norma for males to come even if they are not masturbating etc.
does masturbation has any effect on kidneys?
ty for clarifying points.
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
The time period of erection varies from person to person and how much duration it lasts also changes from person to person and how you are masturbating and how much you are excited by the material either pics or video etc. Then the pre cum is also normal it’s the fluid that comes before ejaculation and it happens with every men. And it does not effect the kidneys unless you have a history or family history of kidney stones
4 years ago
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how you are masturbating?
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Matlab what kind of material are you watching either a simple sexy movie or porn for masturbation
4 years ago
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oh ok. no family history of kidney..
4 years ago
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Is it normal to get erected by watching a exotic dressing of a person or a breast feeding mother whose breast is naked?
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Yes it is very normal
4 years ago
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thanks for sharing information. Some says that mast'n decreases the sensitivity of organ? Is it true? I think it increases the sensitivity of organ, thats why he gets erection frequently even to minor stimuli and ejaculates early. Second query is regarding porno, is it true that it leads to arousal disorder and men need to have the same or more material/images etc.... to arouse? thanks for answering queries.
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
No the psychological sensitivity does not get effected by masturbation even or does not effect the physical sensitivity of the organ and second query ans is that porn cannot create any arousal disorder in males it is a myth again and as I already explained the ejaculation early is not a problem and it is because of not going through actual sex when a person starts to have actual sex he learns to control and ejaculates once even when precum is coming that is also too normal it does not have to do anything with masterbation or organ weakness etc
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
No men can get aroused by even the presence of a female it is all psychological and inside head and if a person wants he can control when to arouse and when not to and also actual sex is too different than just to masturbate with the help of porn pics etc
4 years ago
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thanks for reply. So one can get trained to ''when and when not to get arouse & when to ejaculate, but how? Who gives such training?
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Nobody gives that training I can teach you ways and through discussion and counselling. I have done it previously with other clients. One can learn this with the passage of time you have to learn to control to learn to distract yourself etc
4 years ago
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by training I meant how It can be learned, no other meaning was intended. Do you practice in hospital/clinic for in-clinic sessions?
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
No currently just giving sessions online and it’s hard to explain here just teach you how to psychological distract and refrain from getting aroused etc
4 years ago
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Last query, online sessions are effective for such issues like early ejaculation etc...? Time slot, session fee and session duration etc.....would it be video/audio session? Thanks
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
From my past experiences my clients have shown remarkable progress and improvements. Online session is audio and it’s almost for an hour and for one hour charges are one thousand rupees
4 years ago
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can hypertension also be the reason of ED
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Why you keep saying ED??? In your opinion you are suffering from ED??? I do not think so you should jump to conclusion. For the rest of the query no ED DOES not cause hypertension but it is contrary hypertension can cause ED because of the less blood flow to the male organs
4 years ago
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bcz i m hypertensive and ED issue too
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Have you physically checked yourself by a physician for ED? You hypertension CAN cause ED but it is not always the case
4 years ago
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not.. gets little bit erection
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Then get yourself checked and take medicine for hypertension
4 years ago
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i take sometimes not oftenly as not prescribed by physician to take everyday
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
I think you need to take some other physicians opinion as medicines like these should be take on regularly basis, monitor your blood pressure daily and eat and live healthy because having hypertension at such age brings complications later in the life
4 years ago
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that's why they say dont take hypertension tablets everyday as its young age
take when needed
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
So are you changing life style and eating hypertension friendly food???
4 years ago
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its because of genetics.. yes trying to eat healthy though
4 years ago
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Good luck
4 years ago
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4 years ago
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mam is there any psycholgoical intervention technique to get hardness?erect? i am getting depressed due to this behaviro of orgn
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Look dear you are thinking too much... when we think about something a lot it gets away from us or become hard to achieve... you need to relax calm your nerves and please do deep breathing it will help you a lot and please stop thinking about it .... the more you think the more it becomes hard to achieve... good thing is that it is there as you used to masterbate so try to get back the old thinking relax pattern
4 years ago
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i didnt get what you mean by old thinking relax pattern
4 years ago
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yeah sure i will try not to think
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Read your first query where you use that ksi ke erotic dressing pa bhi you get turned on that’s what I mean
4 years ago
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hey ya let me know. can a small/flat chest girl produce milk in glands after baby delivery? can she do bf? Note that only she is skinny. her siblings and mother size is fine. girl is of 28 y old. Let me know if you know about this
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
Yes off course she can bf the baby after delivery if it is a normal delivery than automatically hormones are released that produce and fasten up the milk production and also the milk production process starts with pregnancy and of it is a c section in some cases for some time the milk production is normal but for some females it’s less than they have to take oral medicine as suggested by the dr that helps in milk production and also drinking lots of fluid after the birth of baby helps in maintaining the milk production
4 years ago
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right but query was can a small chest or flat chest produce it..
4 years ago
MS (Applied Psychology), Certified Hypnotherapist | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
The query was answered if you read it carefully.... yes a flat chest can produce milk after the birth of baby and if you are still not satisfied by my answer please consult a doctor of the relevant field
4 years ago
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4 years ago