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my son is 11 year old he is my husbands first wife son he do have an idea that i am not his mother but hadnt been told by us due to family influence of his grandparents he have a slight idea ,to avoid n reduce his hyperness we got seprated from my inlaws i have 2 young kids of 5 and 4 yrs .his hyperness is completely controlled now but from last 6 months he is begaving weared he pretends that he is afraid of me in front of his father which he is not he had started behaving irritative day by day even school teachers tutors are complaining does what he want to do not ready to take any innitiative or small work tries to avoid our guidance use to irritate young siblings n hit them .i need guidance how to guide n help him his mother doesnt owe him left him whn was 3 mnth n never cntacted him grand parents use him for thier motive they had physicaly n mentally tortured him till our sepration please guide how to regain his confidence n take him out from this self sympothy frace .
It is sad to hear. First you can't help him on the few tips. You need to share more details about your attitude and his father behavior. then i can make some guidelines to help him. Kindly book appointment for further session
give him extra attention, appreciate him and take his proper counselling sessions.
Hope u feel well,
Family ounsellng is needed here. If possible than every thing is resolveable.
Thank u
hey i m child pyschologist book a session with me i will help you
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Family counseling is required here. The child needs sessions. Kindly book your appointment.
Aoa
dear if we meet child and u
then I can best suggestions. booked appointment physically and online through Marham.
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I can sense the sincerity that you have for the child and I really appreciate it. He is 11 years old.so try to engage him in some play. play is the best therapy for kids.
talk to your child. listen to your child carefully.
take it as s challenge. resolving these issues effectively will bring a strong bound between two of you.
take care.
Asa, just show extra love towards that child so that he will get close to you, try to change all the things which other people told him. Show some extra love, take extra care of his things, food. Try to make him happy by doing stuff which he loves. Extra love care will make him forget to all those things which people told him. I really appreciate you that you're concerned about him. Takecare dear
It is mainly because of scars and traumas he had faced in his early life. Insecurities and lack of trust are causing more problems in his life and it is clearly reflecting in his behaviour you need to take him to child psychologist who can first assess him in detail than do functional analysis and plan therapeutic management of his behaviour.
Appreciate ur care & Guidance towards Him.....
Ur care & Love change Him BT FmLy & child counselling needed here for The Betterment......
so, consult wd Psychologist.....
Stay Blessed....
it's best to have complete history before giving advice. and it does not seem s like it will be solved by one of advice either. I suggest you select a psychologist and stick with him or her
There are two different things here. One is a the behavioural therapy of kid, for which an online consultation with videos turn on might be needed, amd one is your own tension and stress and effective child communication for which you have to book appointment for yourself
https://www.marham.pk/doctors/islamabad/psychologist/ms-yasmeen-zahra
kids are quick to catch love. Keep showering your love, he should come forward to you.
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well for me he is just the same
as my 2 other kids no such difference in my attitude the issue is that my inlaws specially the instant family have a strong
concept for the negativ step mom n they keep on feeding the same to him n my hubby who says a single line my parents are god so useless to expect anythnh frm him i just want him to be strong n normal as other kids cause i knw his own grand patents make his life hell fr attaining there motives n ruin him whtever happen was not his fault he deserv the best of the best like everyone else his father is a man who hadnt accepted my younger two kids so you can undrstand him by the oneline i shared here .please guide how to make him confident n strong
4 years ago
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i am here to help you. But it requires to you to an appointment and so we can discuss it on call in details
there are many things i need to know before giving you instructions
4 years ago
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ok
4 years ago